Affair Help - Do You Want
to go Back to the Way
Things Were Before the
written by: Coleta Stewart
Affair Help - Do You Want to go Back to the Way Things Were Before the Affair?
Affair Help - Do You Want to go Back to the Way
Things Were Before the Affair?
Getting over an affair and rebuilding a marriage is not always easy. There is a lot of hard
work and raw emotions involved. You are probably actively seeking or engaging in some
sort of affair help such as counseling or reading books on infidelity. But deep in your heart
you may be yearning for your marriage to go back to the way it used to be before the affair
Is this a wise option, to want things to be the way they once were? Nothing can justify
cheating and betrayal, but consider: why would you want to go back to a time in your
marriage when you were inadvertently setting yourself up to be where you are right now?
The truth of the matter is that you don’t want your marriage to be the same as it was before
the affair. There is no harm in remembering the good times that you shared as a couple, but
the real focus should be on the future and what kind of marriage you want to create in the
years to come?
The affair can't be taken back. You will never forget it, and yes, you wish it had never have
happened, but with the right kind of affair help, you can work to heal your marriage and in
time the hurt and pain will lessen. You can use the affair as a catalyst to make your
marriage better than it has ever been.
The success or failure of your marriage after the affair, depends on you giving up the notion
that you are going to go back to how it was before the affair. Because it's only then that you
can commit to the work necessary to make your marriage far better and stronger in the
future. With love, commitment, hard work and knowledge (through counseling or other
affair help methods), you can start the process toward making your marriage better than
Getting affair help and rebuildin