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Table Of Contents 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Foreword 
Chapter 1: 
Introduction 
 
Chapter 2: 
What Caused The Break  Up 
 
Chapter 3: 
Figure Out If You Truly Want Your Ex Back 
 
Chapter 4: 
Don’t Beg 
 
 Chapter 5: 
Don’t Play Games 
 
Chapter 6: 
Don’t Say You’ve Changed Show It   
 
Chapter 7: 
The Art Of Apologizing 
 
Chapter 8: 
Learn To Let Go Of The Past 
 
 Chapter 9: 
The Art Of Communication 
 
Wrapping Up 
When Is It Time To Let Them Go 
 
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Foreword 
 
 
One of the greatest pleasures in this world is having a significant 
other. Sometimes these relationships do not last. One or both people 
from the relationship may wish to try to fix things and try again. 
Before you decide to do this you should take the time to read this 
book. 
 
 
 
Ex Attraction Secrets 
Everything You Need To Know About Getting Your Ex Back 
 
 
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Chapter 1: 
Introduction 
Synopsis 
 
Here is the truth that you may not be ready to hear, but one you must 
find in yourself to accept: getting your ex back probably won’t be easy. 
Regardless of the cause of your breakup, how you act when trying to 
reconcile will affect your chances of getting back together. 
 
 
 
 
 
 
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Relationships 
 
Two people make a relationship. But at the end of the day, the people 
around you will have an impact on how you and your partner get 
along. Don’t expect it to be any different when the relationship is 
over. If you want to get your ex back, the numerous factors that you 
will have to consider will definitely include the people close to you 
and your ex.  
Another common misconception about relationship problems and 
reconciliations has to do with one’s gender. Getting back with your ex 
won’t be any easier just because you’re a guy or a girl. If anything, 
being aware of the strengths of your own gender can actually increase 
your chances of reconciling – but that’s for a later discussion. 
Now, you’re probably feeling down and thinking, “Why have you been 
hearing about all the challenges of reconciliation so far?” Don’t worry 
– there’s a method to this madness. It is simply to make it clear that 
getting back with your ex won’t be a piece of cake. 
However, not all hope is lost! In fact, you have every chance in the 
world to get your former partner back. And this book is one of the 
essential keys to doing it. 
You may have been advised to follow your heart if you wish to have 
the person you love back at your side. While that’s certainly good 
advice, it is not all you should do. At the end of the day, you need to 
think of reconciliation as a goal.  
 
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If you have a goal, then the next thing you need is a strategy. That 
means planning, considering the pros and cons, and carefully 
weighing your options. Timing is also essential as well as being aware 
of the proven dos and don’ts for getting your ex back.  
You need to know and respect what the experts have to say. In other 
words, a constructive and positive attitude is also necessary for 
getting your ex back. If you are going to insist on being stubborn and 
egoistic about what you should and should not do to reconcile with 
your former partner, then this book won’t be a help to you at all. In 
fact, no one and nothing can be of help to you because you don’t want 
to be helped.  
Before you start on this journey, here are three critical questions that 
you must ask yourself. 
Do you still love your ex? 
Are you willing to keep an open mind about what you must and must 
not do or say to get your ex back? 
Do you believe in yourself –and in your ability to get your ex back? 
If you answer yes to all of the questions above then you’re in the best 
position to get your ex back – and it starts the very moment you turn 
to the next page. 
  
 
 
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Chapter 2: 
What Caused The Break  Up 
Synopsis 
 
 
Cause and effect is one of the most commonly used methods for 
solving problems. Certainly, breakups are no exception. No matter 
what kind of problem you’re dealing with, identifying its nature is 
always the best first step to take. In the case of your breakup, you 
should start by determining its cause. You may want to try writing it 
down for future reference. 
 
 
 
 
 
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Factors To Consider When Determining The Cause 
Of A Breakup 
 
 
Granted, that subheading sounds more like a section title for a thesis 
paper, but that’s actually a good thing. Dissecting a failed relationship 
is a painful process, but you need to find a way to move on from what 
happened – to see the bigger picture and learn from your mistakes in 
order to get your ex back…for good. 
 
Honesty 
 
This is the make-or-break factor when determining the cause of a 
break up. When emotions are running high and you’re too close to the 
situation, it’s hard to be honest and objective about what really 
happened. Keep in mind that understanding what made you and your 
partner break up does not mean you have to play the blame game. It’s 
not that at all. It’s not about determining who was wrong. Rather, 
being honest about the true and real cause of your breakup means 
thinking about what you can do better the second time around.  
 
Of course, it takes two to tango, so obviously what your partner can 
do to make you a stronger couple will also come up. You need to be 
honest about which role your partner will be taking, but – again – 
remember to put a positive spin on things. 
 
 
 
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Example: 
Right: You will spend more time with your partner to show that you 
care. 
Wrong: You will spend less time working to focus on your partner. 
Although both may essentially mean the same thing, how you look at 
your goal and strategy can make things look rosier for you and your 
ex. And naturally, the same rules also apply to your ex. 
 
Right: Your partner will be more sensitive about your feelings. 
Wrong: Your partner will refrain from treating you with disrespect. 
Simply put, you can be honest while being tactful at the same time. 
Allow each other to read between the lines and avoid saying hurtful 
things when discussing or considering the cause of your breakup. 
 
Closure 
 
Breakups are not always the result of a mutual decision. At times, it’s 
entirely one-sided. If you were the one left hanging and clueless after 
the breakup, then you need to find closure first. If you are lucky, your 
ex shall willingly help you find closure. If not, there are two things 
you can do: you can try coming up with the reason behind the 
breakup on your own – or you can just let it go. Either way, it’s best 
not to make any negative assumptions about your ex. That’s definitely 
not a good place to start if it’s reconciliation you are after. 
 
 
 
 
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Chapter 3: 
Figure Out If You Truly Want Your Ex Back 
Synopsis 
 
 
Do you remember one of the three essential questions that you asked 
yourself at the start of this book? Do you still love your ex? You’re 
probably thinking that if you answer yes to that question it means you 
get to skip this chapter. But actually, that’s not the case at all. 
Although relationships are one of the grayer areas of life, that’s not to 
say there are no right and wrong reasons for getting your ex back. 
 
 
 
 
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Time To Think 
 
Some relationships are destined to last and be better the second or 
third time around. However, there are also relationships which are 
doomed from the start or are best left and forgotten in the past. In 
this chapter, you get to figure out if your reasons for wanting to 
reconcile shall help – or hurt – your chances of getting your ex back. 
 
You Still Love Your Ex 
 
That’s probably the best reason to try getting your ex back. In fact, the 
outcome is just secondary. What matters right now is that you gave it 
your best shot. If it still doesn’t work out in the end, you would have 
at least saved yourself from tormenting yourself with numerous what-
if questions about what more you could have done to have your 
former partner back in your life. 
 
You Are Guilty About The Past 
 
Guilt can be just as strong of a motivator as love can, but it is not a 
good reason to get your ex back. If the love is not there, then you just 
need to learn to live with the guilt until time and forgiveness causes it 
to fade. Reconciling with a former flame out of guilt will only result in 
more heartbreak.  
 
 
 
 
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You Want To Try Again 
 
It might not be the best reason to get your ex back, but it is not a bad 
reason either. Love may not be present for one or both sides, but that 
does not mean you can’t fall in love with each other on the second try. 
If this is your reason for wanting to get back with your ex, just make 
sure that you do not offer any false promises about your desire for 
reconciling. Lies will only muddy the waters between you and your ex, 
not to mention the fact that dishonesty never makes a reliable 
foundation for any relationship. 
 
You Are Guilty About The Present 
 
You did nothing wrong when you broke up. However, you heard 
about how your ex is faring badly at present, and this makes you feel 
guilty. That’s understandable, but it’s not a good enough reason to get 
back with your ex. You need to dig deeper and find out if it is just 
companionship, an apology, or truly another shot at love that you 
want to offer. 
 
You Are Lonely 
 
It may not be the worst reason to get your ex back, but it’s certainly 
one of the worse. Seeking the company of your ex out of loneliness 
would be a selfish act on your part. Reconciling may be a blessing for 
you, but what about your ex? Do you think it will make your ex feel 
 
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good if he or she learns the real reason why you wanted to get back 
together? 
 
You could have many other reasons, and not all of them may be valid. 
At the end of the day, you need to listen to both your heart and mind. 
Is getting your ex back truly the right thing to do, and is it something 
you truly want?  
  
 
 
  
 
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Chapter 4: 
Don’t Beg 
Synopsis 
 
 
The last time that begging and pestering successfully worked in your 
favor was most probably with your loving parents, and of course, you 
had to be really young then. When you grew older, your parents 
became immune to your begging antics, not to mention that they had 
already mastered the art of saying ‘no’ to you. 
 
 
 
 
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Begging Will Get You Nowhere 
 
The thought of begging never again crossed your mind until the 
day you broke up with your ex; you let go of your pride and went 
groveling hoping that she would have pity on you and take you 
back. Begging only creates problems for the both of you in the 
future and it is better to give up while you are still ahead and is 
considered to be the bane of all reconciliations.  
 
Your Ex will Think Of You As A Charity Case 
 
In layman’s language, begging is defined as asking for something 
as a favor or a gift; a good hint as to why begging is one of the 
worst ways of getting your ex back. Why would you want your ex to 
do you the favor of taking you back; it makes you look like a 
pathetic charity case.  
 
If you do succeed and your ex does take you back, they will only be 
doing so because they either feels sorry for you or because you 
made them feel guilty. A relationship based on such a shaky 
foundation is not bound to last and neither of you will appreciate 
the fact that you both feel obligated to be with each other; in the 
long run you will both feel like casualties of the unhealthy 
relationship. 
 
 
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You Will Always Question Your Partner’s Motives For 
Taking You Back 
 
After your ex gives in to your pestering, you will always ask 
yourself why they took you back whether they did it because they 
care for you and that they cannot picture their life without you or if 
they did it out of guilt and pity. A person’s confidence can only take 
so much bruising from pondering on such damaging thoughts and 
feelings. 
 
You will never respect or hold your ex in high regard again if you 
happen to suspect that they took you back out of sheer guilt and 
pity. It is only logical that you will no longer feel attracted to each 
other as before especially if you feel that your ex’s feelings for you 
are not sincere. 
 
You Both Feel Weak And Manipulated 
 
Begging is a sign of weakness for all parties involved; first, you are 
weak for resorting to begging to win your ex back, secondly, your 
ex is also weak for accepting to take you back. A strong 
relationship is built by two equally strong people, never a pair of 
weaklings. 
 
Once your relationship is built on a weak foundation, there is no 
chance that it will stand the test of time, and when it crumbles, it is 
difficult to piece it back together again. Making up a second time is 
 
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usually a feat in itself, a third time is clearly a death sentence for 
your relationship.  
 
The Foolproof Solution 
 
Now that it has been established that pestering and begging will 
never be a lasting solution to getting your ex back, you have to take 
another effective approach to fulfilling you goal. First, you should 
exude confidence by staying strong, showing your ex what they 
have been missing since the two of you broke up.   
 
Show them that you are indeed worthy of a second chance and that 
you are mature enough for a new relationship with them. Give 
your ex some space and when they feel ready to start something 
new, take control by delivering on their needs and expectations. 
Confidence and strength shows that you are proactive and that you 
have taken control of your destiny, not to mention that it makes 
you look more attractive. Begging is a sign of weakness and by 
doing the opposite, you remind your ex of the attributes that made 
them fall in love with you in the first place; your revitalized 
relationship will be more meaningful and more real than before. 
 
 
 
 
 
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Chapter 5: 
Don’t Play Games 
Synopsis 
 
Get your ex back with these simple yet effective tips. It’s never easy 
when you lose your loved one, especially when you have been together 
for a very long time. If this has just happened, you may end up 
looking for another that could serve as the cover or you might do 
everything in your power to get your loved one back as soon as 
possible. In case you are the one that wants to have your loved one 
back, then this article shall aide you in your quest to get your ex back. 
 
 
 
 
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Be Serious 
 
In the event that you and your partner are just like everybody else – 
fooling around and playing games – then it’s no surprise that you 
separated. This is a really common experience for many today – a guy 
having multiple girlfriends and vice versa. Studies have shown that 
when couples engage in this kind of relationship they will not last 
together for long. 
 
Don’t Play Games 
 
Now if you want to have a second chance out of the relationship you 
had with your ex, you must make sure that you do not play games 
anymore. Also, if you discover that your ex is playing games with you, 
then control the situation and don’t let the situation get over your 
head. This is one good way of ensuring that you win her love and 
affection for the second time around. It is truly not as easy as it seems 
but if you have determination then you will get through it easily.  
 
Sincerity And Honesty 
 
One vital key to progress to the next level of your relationship is to 
show sincerity and honesty with what you are doing and with what 
you are saying. By doing this, you will be showing her that you want 
to get him/her back as soon as possible as well as showing them that 
you are the best lover that he/she has had.  
 
 
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Jealousy is one game that is mostly played by couples across the 
world; here one party will try to get the other party jealous by flirting 
with other people. This might sound fun but as you go along with the 
flow, you will find that you can never win the love and affection of 
your ex if you are constantly playing games to draw her to you. 
Another famous result of this game is that your ex would likewise 
look for someone to flirt with to make you jealous and in the long run, 
you might end up losing your love and care for one another. 
 
Effort And Commitment To The Cause 
 
Effort and commitment are two things that can never dispense from 
you if you are really planning to win back the heart of your ex. There 
is a good chance that your ex left you because maybe he/she saw 
some insufficiency on your part. If this is the case, then you will have 
to step up to the plate and show your ex that you are committed. 
Therefore, you should take the necessary measures to show her the 
effort and commitment that you can do to satisfy your ex’s wants and 
needs.   
  
 
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Chapter 6: 
Don’t Say You’ve Changed Show It   
Synopsis 
 
Break ups are one of the most difficult things you’ll experience in life. 
The pain you will feel will be unbearable to the point where the 
emotional pain feels like it’s becoming physical. Your heart will hurt 
in a way where it seems like everything in your world will crumble. 
We have all gone through this at least once in our lives and though 
time really does heal all wounds, the experience of a heart break will 
always somehow scar you for life. 
 
 
 
 
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Faith 
 
There’s a reason as to why relationships end. It can never just 
be because there’s no more love and that the happiness is gone. 
Something is not working out. It could be numerous fights and 
arguments, promises being broken, continuous nagging, lying, 
lack of respect etc. The physical and emotional needs of both 
people in a relationship needs to be met in order for things to 
work out, otherwise it will all go downhill from there.  
 
But what if you’re the one in the relationship who got dumped?  
What if you didn’t even see it coming? 
What if you are still in love with your ex-partner?  
What if you were not aware of how unhappy he/she was in the 
relationship because of the things you did? What if you hurt 
him/her continuously?  
What if all you want is from him/her to take you back?  
 
So Many What If’s. 
 
When it comes to getting your ex back the important thing to 
think of first is “What went wrong?” Sometimes it is hard to 
admit that it might be because of the things you did wrong that 
ended the relationship. The next thing to do is accept that 
you’ve done wrong and apologize. Before approaching your ex 
to ask him/her to come back, you must first confront your own 
monsters.  
 
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Did you lie during the relationship? Did you cheat? Were you 
abusive? Did you not give them the respect they deserved? Are 
you willing to change all that to save your relationship? It’s too 
easy to say “I’m sorry.” and sure, you mean it but it’s more to 
ask for forgiveness.  
 
Saying you’re sorry is one thing but proving it is another. While 
it is admirable to show your ex that you’ve changed, you must 
first prove it to yourself. Your ex will sense if you are being 
genuine or not.  
 
Try to dig deep as to why you have done the bad things in the 
past that have caused the relationship to end. Why did you lie or 
cheat or become abusive? Once you’ve found the answer to that, 
work on yourself. If you are not happy with yourself, then you 
can’t fully be happy in a relationship.  
 
Once you’ve dealt with your own issues, then that’s when you 
can confidently ask for your ex to give you another chance. 
Show him/her that you’re no longer going to do the things that 
brought about the break up.  
 
 
 
 
 
 
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Actions Always Speak Louder Than Words. 
 
 
Follow through with all the promises you’ll make . People tend 
to change for only a short time then go back to their old ways. 
This would only cause another future break up. 
 
 
 
 
 
 
  
 
 
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Chapter 7: 
The Art Of Apologizing 
Synopsis 
 
 
There are a lot of jokes that people make about their exes but it is 
worthy to note that these jokes are half meant. Indeed there are many 
individuals that point at each other as well as outside ‘forces’ that 
break up their relationships. However, these jokes and external 
‘forces’ should never be an excuse to break up them with their 
partners in life, not to mention the persons they love the most. 
 
 
 
 
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Making The Perfect Apology For You To Win Your 
Ex Back 
 
Initially, when lovers break up, there is that feeling of negativity as 
well as positivity that circles around them. Some might even say that 
there are greener pastures that they can take and that they regret 
meeting the person they recently broke up with.  
 
However, at some point, they will realize how valuable the person 
they left is and end up begging their ex to take them back. That’s why 
it does not come as a surprise when they do everything in their power 
to rekindle their love for each other.  
 
More often than not, couples break up once and get back together as 
stronger individuals. Thus, this would mean that their relationship 
this time would be a lot stronger but before they do get back to feeling 
each other’s love and care, apologies should be made. Men should 
always be the ones to ask for apologies from women so that women in 
turn would see the commitment and sincerity of the man. So if you 
want to make that perfect apology for your woman, here are some 
ways you can do it.  
 
Don’t Be Too Cheesy, Take It Easy 
 
There are times when men think too much about the words they 
choose when they make their speeches in front of women (apologies). 
Some succeed at it while some fail because they become too cheesy. 
 
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Women might want sweet words from men’s hearts when making 
their apologies but it’s the thought that counts in these situations. 
Therefore, if you are planning to take your ex back with an apology, 
make sure not to sound too cheesy because the woman might think 
that you are not sincere.  
 
Be Sincere 
 
Sincerity is another issue when it comes to apologies because some 
women have really high standards. The best time for you to make the 
apology is when you mean it the most. Many immediately apologize 
after having a huge fight or a break up just for the sake of it. The next 
day, the woman finds out or the man realizes that it isn’t even sincere. 
Hence, you should make the apology when you mean it so that both of 
you can feel each other’s sincerity.  
 
Bring Some Flowers 
 
The last thing to consider when you are making an apology is to bring 
flowers and chocolates. Since time immemorial, women have always 
loved receiving flowers from their men. The flowers do not need to be 
the most expensive or the most beautiful; it is enough that they look 
presentable and most importantly, that they came straight from your 
heart. Win back the love and care of your ex by making that perfect 
apology as soon as you can. 
  
  
 
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Chapter 8: 
Learn To Let Go Of The Past 
Synopsis 
People tend to get so wrapped up in their past that moving forward is 
a daunting task. A wise man once said, “You have to be happy with 
yourself to be happy with someone else.” Truer words were never 
spoken. It’s painful to one day find yourself alone and realize this 
when it’s too late. 
 
 
 
 
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Forget It 
 
 
The way a person deals with life in the present is a result of the life 
they once led in the past. This applies to relationships. If you find 
yourself constantly going from one boyfriend/girlfriend to another, 
then it is likely that you are going about relationships all wrong. 
Most people who do not succeed in relationships are the ones who 
still cling to their past.  
 
Let me give you an example. You meet a person you have 
chemistry with. You two start dating and decide to have a 
relationship. Once in a real relationship you start getting scared 
that what happened in your past will happen again. You might 
have been cheated on or lied to or was once abused. For no 
apparent reason, none of that was given to you by the person 
you’re in a relationship now, you start having doubts. You start 
closing yourself off and putting up walls. You stop communicating.  
 
This is the beginning of the end. You will slowly see the signs of 
your partner losing interest. The next thing you know, he/she is 
out the door.  
 
The lesson here is simple: 
 
 Stop carrying around the all of that old baggage. It is unnecessary.  
 
 
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Stop with all of the regrets. Stop over thinking of all the pain 
you’ve had in the past. There’s a reason why it’s called the past. Do 
not let it affect the present nor the future. Forgive yourself. Forgive 
the people who once hurt you. You can’t ever move on if you 
always feel that you will get hurt again.  
 
Love is such a beautiful feeling. Missing out on it because you 
cannot let go of what once was is such a shame. It’s okay to 
remember the bad and the good of the past but it’s not okay to still 
be bringing all of it with you. Acknowledge that you got hurt or 
that you hurt someone before. Accept it. There is no way to undo 
what has already been done.  
 
So instead of holding on to that, release it. Take the time to work 
on yourself. Grieve if you have to. Cry if you need to.  Get mad and 
lash out. 
 
If it has to be done, then do it. Release all of the negativity that is 
weighing you down. Release it in to the air and bid it good 
riddance. Allow yourself all of this because you deserve it. 
Everyone deserves to be happy. You and your partner included. If 
you are not happy with yourself, then you won’t be happy in the 
company of anyone else.  
 
Remember, you are where you’re at now because that’s where 
you’re supposed to be. Looking back to the past is useless. Let go! 
 
 
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Chapter 9: 
The Art Of Communication 
Synopsis 
 
Even when your relationship is over, it is still important to keep 
communication lines open with your ex, especially if there are 
children or properties involved 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
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8 Important Tips That Will Improve Your 
Communication With Your Ex 
 
  
Instead of concentrating on negative thoughts and mentally 
murdering your partner every single time you talk, you can follow the 
tips below to help make communicating with him or her easier and be 
more comfortable. It will make your life breezier, and less stressful.  
 
Tip #1: Smile 
 
This is not a joke. According to a number of studies, if you smile even 
when don’t feel happy, your mood is actually brightened and 
improved. If you smile when talking to your ex, chances are, any heat 
in the situation will be diffused. In the past, warring tribes shake 
hands to show that no weapons were brought. When you bring and 
wear a smile when you meet your ex, it will lighten up the situation 
and will make the conversation much easier. 
 
Tip #2: Do Not Talk About Money 
 
The cliché ‘Money is the root of all evil,’ is actually true in 
communicating with your ex, because it talks about money is the root 
of disagreements between couples. Keep the conversation free of 
money, especially when talking about your properties and children. 
Topics such as payment disputes should be kept to a minimum, if not 
totally avoidable.  
 
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Tip #3: Do Not Engage 
 
Do not take his or her bait. If disagreements cannot be helped, be 
smart enough to be aware that keeping your buttons covered so that 
he or she cannot push them will help in lowering stress levels.  Do not 
engage. Remember that the conversation you are having might not be 
a real one, but just a game of control. The only way that you can win is 
by not engaging at all.  
 
Tip #4: Make Plans 
 
Planning ahead and mentally rehearsing your issues will help you 
have a clearer conversation. Create a script and boil it down to simple 
and concise requests or statements. This way, you can control the 
conversation and stay in focus.  
 
Tip #5: Slow Down 
 
You don’t have to count from 1 to 10, instead, train yourself to slow 
down your reactions. It is typical in difficult situations to react with 
intentions to be physical and just cause him or her pain. But keep in 
mind that you are an adult, and you will never resort to a slug fest, so 
keep your hands right at your side. Take a long second and breathe in 
and out, then allow yourself to think and let the reasonable part of 
your brain win.  
 
 
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Tip #6: Use Your Knowledge And Calculate 
 
You used to be with this person day and night. You must know him or 
her like the back of your hand, at some point. You know what makes 
him tick. Use this knowledge to work towards your advantage. 
Calculate your moves according to his responses, and what makes 
him rationally behave and become reasonable. Do not use his 
weaknesses against him with intentions of putting him off and 
bringing him down; that would just aggravate the situation.  
 
Tip #7:  Forget The Past, Focus On The Future 
 
Hashing over the past will make both of you lose, so forget about it. 
You are in the present, and you have a future to think about. Each of 
you have your own versions of the past, and it will just dredge bad 
memories back up. Do not rehash your problems, since there isn’t 
anything that you can do about it anymore but fix the errors and just 
move on.  
 
Tip #8: Just Face The Undeniable Truths And Facts 
 
Too many relationships fail and never get fixed because one or both 
parties fail to acknowledge and accept the facts involved. If you want 
to get your ex back, then you must face the fact that you indeed love 
them and want them back. Then focus on it. Face the fact that you 
love them. Face the fact that you want your ex back. 
 
 
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Wrapping Up 
When Is It Time To Let Them Go 
 
Love is a very unique feeling, mostly because of its ability to inflict so 
much hurt when things don’t work out, especially between couples. 
Many relationships fail, not because people do not harbor genuine 
feelings for each other, whatever the reason may be, moving on from 
someone you cared deeply for is not an easy process; it is one that 
gets more bearable with each passing day.  
 
Changing Your Way Of Thinking 
 
It is important to realize that you may still harbor feelings for this 
person making it difficult for you to let them go, which is logical 
considering that you have spent a lot of time with this person and in 
the process you trusted them with a huge portion of your heart. Now 
that you have made a conscious decision to let them go, it is 
important to start changing your perspective on them, not what you 
wish them to be, but as the person they genuinely are. 
 
For starters, if they deceived and lied to you or if they no longer have 
feelings for you; realize that such a relationship is not healthy in the 
least and you may end up feeling angry and misunderstood. 
Forgetting your ex may be hard but it is not an impossible feat, after 
 
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which you will be able to start healing and possibly even find 
someone new. 
 
It is important to understand that letting go or moving does not 
necessarily mean that you should stop having feelings for this person. 
You can still look out for your ex and sincerely wish them all the best 
that life has to offer. Have faith in yourself because every individual 
has an unlimited potential, and love gives us the opportunity to do 
just that. 
 
Life Goes On 
 
In as much as you have been exclusive with one person for a very long 
time, making it seem like others do not exist, you should look at your 
surrounding and see that there are other people, it may take a while 
but you will eventually meet someone else. Don’t we all wish that our 
lives would go according to how we planned it, but once in a while, 
life throws us a curve ball to shake things up a little; a breakup is one 
of them. 
 
Statistics show that a lot of people date more than five people before 
they finally settle down, that’s at least 20% worth of golden 
opportunities to find your soul mate. Be optimistic and try to look at 
the positive side of things since optimism results in a quick recovery, 
who knows, you may have been dating a constant nag and now you 
have finally gotten rid of them allowing you to find someone better. 
 
 
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Recover Your Independence 
 
If you have the means and resources, you can take a trip someplace 
since a different scenery will help you feel refreshed. Interact with 
other people so you distract yourself, you can share stories and 
engage in fun activities like going to parties or spending the day at the 
beach. Set aside some alone time and encourage yourself to adapt an 
independent attitude because if you can’t appreciate your own 
company, no one else will. 
 
Get Rid Of Sentimental Mementos 
 
Get rid of all the sentimental stuff that reminds you of your ex from 
plain sight, this is essential in your quest to move on. Remove all 
pictures, stuffed animals, movie stubs, and notes and put them away 
in storage, this process does hurt but it is also uplifting as well. This 
does not necessarily mean that you destroy everything they have ever 
given to you because later on, you may want to keep all the mementos 
just to remember them by, and after you have moved on you can take 
them out and remember all the good times you had with them. 
 
 
 
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