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Learn to Hack Her Brain And Make Her Yours
THE FEMALE MIND 
CONTROL HANDBOOK
by
Kate Spring is a relationship coach, YouTuber 
and best-selling author from Vancouver, Canada.  
She specializes in helping men from around the 
world win the hearts of women by mastering 
radical authenticity and female psychology. 
Kate’s acclaimed online program The Obsession 
Method has sold nearly 100,000 copies and is 
widely considered to be among the best and most 
comprehensive men’s dating guides on the planet.
Dating & Relationship Coach
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Stop me if you’ve said this one before...
              Women just don’t like me.”
If this sounds familiar, you’re not alone. Every 
client I’ve ever had in my work as a love coach 
has said some variation of this sentence.
If you feel this way, you may think there’s 
nothing you can do. Well I’m here to offer 
you hope. 
The truth is, inside every guy is the man 
women dream about finding. Unlocking this 
man takes work but it is within your grasp.
I can already hear the doubt in your mind 
creeping in. You’re saying, “people don’t 
change. It’s impossible.” and you’re right. Who 
you are inside is largely unchangeable. What 
you can change is how women see you and 
that’s by changing how you see yourself.
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Let’s talk about money for a second. Money 
is just a number in your bank account but 
having enough of it completely transforms 
how you act and even appear to those around 
you, especially women. Most people think 
women are drawn to wealthy men because 
they want a man who can provide for them, 
and this is true, but it goes way beyond just 
that. Once you surpass a certain income, 
greater wealth will make very little difference 
in her day-to-day life, and yet, women are 
certainly more attracted to Elon Musk than 
they are to your average engineer, even if they 
don’t care about flying private.
This is because it’s not really about the money. 
It’s about the effect having money has on how 
you see yourself. That’s what attracts women 
to powerful, rich men. And the better news is, 
there’s a way you can get this same confidence 
even if you don’t have a dollar to your name.
THE PROSPERITY PRINCIPLE
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Imagine two men. The first knows how to win 
the hearts of women without even trying. He 
always has a date on a Friday night and his 
only problem is that there’s not enough hours 
in the day to date every woman he comes 
across. The second has gone his entire life 
without ever getting so much as a first kiss. 
Would you believe that these two men look 
the exact same, have the same net worth, and 
score the same on an IQ test?
SELF PERCEPTION IS EVERYTHING
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I’ll go a step further. I can take the second 
man and, within two weeks, transform him 
into the man that every woman wants to be 
with. The change is so powerful that if he 
walks into a room, women will literally stop 
talking to the first man, mid sentence, and line 
up for a chance to speak to the second man.
But most men never achieve their full 
potential when it comes to attracting and 
seducing beautiful women. Why is this?
Often they take the wrong approach, falling 
for cookie-cutter seduction strategies that 
present tactics without ever getting to the 
root of what brings men and women together. 
Others fail simply because they never take 
that first step.
I’m happy to report that you don’t have to 
suffer the same fate, and that’s because you’re 
reading the Female Mind Control Handbook!
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In this short handbook I’ll teach you the 
simple methods you need to adopt if you want 
to attract and seduce women.
But I’m not going to stop there. I’m going to 
do something that no other seduction coach 
has done up to this point...I’m going to reveal 
the base code that underpins every seduction 
and teach you how to make it a concrete 
reality in your own life.
Let’s start at the beginning. 
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Your first interaction with a woman is the 
most important. It can set you up as her true 
love or as a horror story she tells whenever 
anyone mentions a terrible date. Here’s 
the first thing you need to remember when 
making your approach that can make or break 
this first interaction.
Harness your physicality
Physicality is so important when it comes 
to your approach. While it helps to be good 
looking and in shape, it really isn’t necessary 
to attract a woman. What you need is to make 
her aware of your body and your physical 
presence in space.
Let’s look at a newly minted phenomenon 
that’s a very popular point of discussion 
lately: manspreading. For those who don’t 
know, manspreading is when men take 
THE APPROACH
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up more space than they need as a sort of 
subconscious form of dominance.
It’s largely been highlighted as something 
rude that men need to avoid if they want 
to be seen as respectable. But I take a 
different approach. Certainly, if you’re on a 
crowded bus and you’re taking up two seats, 
manspreading makes you look bad. But 
the truth is, there’s a reason this is such a 
universal experience: because it works.
If you look at almost any “stereotypical male” 
behaviour, closely enough, you’ll find that it has 
a link to social dominance and reproductive 
success and manspreading is a prime example. 
Women want a man who physically takes 
charge of the space he’s in because it’s a signal 
of dominance--it ties back to their primal 
instincts to mate with an alpha male.
Women like men who are physically 
large and dominant and you can use this 
information no matter what you look like or 
how short you are. 
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There are several ways you can draw women’s 
attention to your body and even appear bigger 
and more imposing (and thus more attractive) 
in their eyes. 
Be physical in the space
Here’s a simple physical trick I notice 
particularly common in athletes. I call it “the 
lean.” Next time you’re talking to a woman, 
simply reach your arm over your head and 
grab the door frame.
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It seems silly until you notice it. Then you 
realize that almost all sexually successful men 
do this almost constantly.
They say you need to make yourself large to 
scare off a grizzly, but the same action has the 
opposite effect on women. If there was ever any 
doubt that women are the true apex predators. 
I actually made a full video guide on how you 
can leverage your body language to make 
you attract women like mosquitos to a light. 
If you’re interested in checking out, just click 
this video link below.
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Talk with your hands
There’s a reason that magicians always get laid. 
Quick and skillful hand movements have been 
linked to evolutionary success in humans.
So by keeping your hands active and engaged 
in a conversation you not only are more able 
to keep her attention, you demonstrate your 
biological superiority with just a flick of the 
wrist.
Regular exercise
Many people think big muscles and a toned 
body are key to seduction. While this is helpful, 
it’s not as important as simply keeping active.
“No citizen has a right to be an amateur in the matter 
of physical training…what a disgrace it is for a man to 
grow old without ever seeing the beauty and strength 
of which his body is capable.” -Socrates
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Regular fitness training will activate your 
muscles and put you in touch with your body 
in a way that women find extremely attractive. 
Whether or not there’s a huge difference when 
you look in the mirror, there’s a powerful 
difference in how you carry your body in 
space and it’s that difference that will draw 
women to you without them ever knowing.
Now let’s talk about your number one goal in 
every interaction with a woman: making that 
personal connection.
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The importance of personal connection in 
interactions with women was inspired by 
Jeremy, an old friend of mine.
Jeremy is the first to admit that he’s a 
completely average guy in most ways. He’s 
got a receding hairline despite only being 
25. He works as a process server. He’s not 
particularly intelligent, fit or even especially 
extroverted. But despite having little to offer 
on paper, he’s constantly surrounded by 
friends, admirers and beautiful women.
I always wondered what seemed to draw 
people to Jeremy like a magnet.
One day, we were out at lunch and both the 
server and the hostess gave him their number, 
without him even asking. I was blown away. I 
finally asked him, “What’s your secret?” 
HOW TO MAKE THE PERSONAL CONNECTION
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Jeremy just pointed to our waitress and said, 
“the hostess, she’s from Lake Minnetonka.”
“So what?”
“I spent a summer there growing up. I guess 
she thinks we have a lot to talk about.”
“And what about the server?”
He grinned, “She liked that I ordered a diet 
Sprite.”
I said, “Jeremy that makes no sense. Talking 
about people’s favorite brand of soda or their 
hometown is just small talk. It’s what I’ve 
always told men to avoid if they want to make 
a lasting impression.”
Jeremy just smiled. “It worked on you,” he said.
Then I thought back to the first time we met. 
He was a friend of a friend I got to talking to 
at a party. We had what had seemed like an 
innocuous conversation but, thinking back, it 
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was the only part of the party that stood out in 
my memory. We talked about bath mats for a 
full ten minutes and little did I know, it was a 
conversation I would never forget.
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The truth was, though his chit chat had 
seemed very standard, Jeremy did something 
that very few people do. He had a knack for 
ferreting out points of connection in people 
he met. Within five minutes of meeting 
him, he knew something about you that few 
other people knew, even if it was as silly as 
diet Sprite. And beyond that, he’d found out 
something the two of you have in common. 
He achieved this not through some magical 
combination of words and phrases. It 
was about actively listening and making 
connections between your life and his. The 
result of this was a surprisingly strong bond 
between two people who were barely on a first 
name basis. This is what I mean when I say 
you need to find a personal connection.
You see, no matter how extroverted and 
charming you may be, meeting new people 
puts you in a position of social stress. It’s how 
we handle that stress that determines our 
success or failure. 
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It all comes back to fight, flight, or freeze.
Introverted, shy, or socially inept people will 
freeze up and struggle to get a word out. Then 
they’ll run away at the first sign of trouble.
Extroverts will do the opposite. What we may 
process on the surface as charm and wit, are, 
in reality, an effort to impress the other person 
which is, believe it or not, a fight response. This 
is what happens when you meet someone at a 
party who stands out as charming, funny and 
interesting and yet is gone from our mind as 
soon as they’re out of sight.
The truth is, charm and wit are certainly 
attractive, but without that personal 
connection, our brain recognizes what they 
really are: a play for social domination--a 
parlor trick. 
Jeremy never had this problem. As I said, 
Jeremy wasn’t particularly charming. His 
talent came from his ability to listen and make 
connections. Instead of freezing, fighting, or 
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fleeing, Jeremy found another path. He’d ask 
innocuous questions and from your answers, 
he’d figure out what was important to you and 
how you saw yourself, and, most importantly, 
what the two of you had in common. In 
essence, Jeremy turned the social stress 
generated to a common goal.
Since I came to this realization, I’ve studied 
Jeremy in social situations and here are some 
of the points of connection I’ve seen him find: 
Yoyos, not understanding how air conditioning 
works, making fun of Scientology, the taste of 
ice from plastic ice trays--I could go on.
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 Finding common ground
So how can you be like Jeremy? This kind of 
communication is an acquired skill that you 
need to practice to master but it’s easier than 
you think.
Jeremy realized that social success is all about 
stickiness. Namely, do people remember you 
when you leave a room. Do your conversations 
stick in their heads?
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Your goal needs to be finding what the two of 
you have in common as soon as possible in a 
conversation and repeat it to reinforce it.
It can feel artificial and many people will 
realize what you’re doing. But guess what? 
That’s totally fine.
Despite what they may say, nearly all people 
are driven to make connections any chance 
they get.
They’ll appreciate it if you’re willing to make 
the effort to make that connection, even if it 
feels a bit awkward at first. It’s like icebreaker 
games. Sure, they’re extremely embarrassing 
and stupid but people use them because  
they really do work. 
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90% of success is showing up, and getting 
to stick around. There are so many ways to 
make or break any interaction with a woman, 
but more important than making a good 
impression, is continuing to be present and 
available. If you want to learn how to make 
a really powerful first impression that gets a 
woman instantly attracted to you, though, just 
click this video link below. It’s a great video 
guide featuring yours truly!
THE ‘FOOT IN THE DOOR’ PRINCIPLE
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Anyways, you can blow her away with a huge 
romantic gesture but if you’re not there for 
the follow up, it’s all for nothing. Most often, 
seduction is a marathon, not a sprint. 
To master The Foot In The Door Principle, 
you simply need to roll with the punches, 
make it past the awkward moments and avoid 
making huge attraction-killing mistakes. 
Making small errors and putting your foot 
in your mouth isn’t what destroys your 
chances with women. It’s how you react that 
determines your success. 
“Opened my eyes to my value, and my past mistakes”
“Dating used to feel like banging my head against 
a wall. I would get stuck in the same short term 
relationships and unable to make a true connection with 
the women I really wanted. The Obsession Method was 
my way out. Kate opened my eyes to my hidden inner 
value that I didn’t even know I had while also showing 
me all the mistakes I’d been making in the past. A true 
game changer for my sex life.”  -Stefan B., Portland OR
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While I don’t typically advise looking to 
Hollywood movies for romantic advice, there 
is one element of romantic comedies that has 
always been spot on: the meet-cute.
A meet-cute is when two characters 
who will eventually form a romantic 
relationship meet under humorous  
or cute circumstances.
Maybe he spills a coffee on her shoes or 
she accidentally knocks him down a flight 
of stairs--whatever. The specific interaction 
doesn’t matter. What matters is that it leads 
somewhere.
She doesn’t fall for him because he spills the 
coffee; she falls for him because of how he 
manages to turn this awkward moment into a 
moment of connection. That’s what you need 
to do if you want to master the Foot In The 
Door Principle. 
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I don’t advise trying to manufacture some sort 
of elaborate meet-cute or knock her down a 
flight of stairs. The truth is, chances are you’re 
going to make some sort of mistake when 
you first meet a woman, especially if you’re 
nervous. You need to be able to laugh it off, 
press onward, and use this mistake to your 
advantage. If you can show her that being 
vulnerable isn’t embarrassing, it will speak 
volumes about your value as a man and your 
ability to give her exactly what she wants.
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Women are willing to forgive quite a lot of 
male behaviour but there are certain actions 
that will kill attraction in any woman. These 
behaviours are so damning because they 
speak to a larger problem with your character 
and confidence, and women have an uncanny 
ability to recognize these faults.
Women aren’t looking for a reason to turn you 
away, but sexual selection is baked into how 
we all see the world.
This is the end result of millions of years of 
evolution. We can’t stop noticing red flags, 
just as we can’t stop our heart from beating 
or our stomach from digesting food. It’s an 
automatic process.
AVOID THESE ATTRACTION-KILLING MISTAKES
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That’s why you need to be aware of these four 
behaviours and tear them out at the root, if you 
want to have any chance of attracting women.
  1. Bad hygiene
Take care to always look your best. You don’t 
need to wear a three-piece suit every day 
but you do need to be dressed in a flattering, 
comfortable style that makes the most of your 
best attributes.
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More important than that is the personal 
hygiene side. Make sure that when you leave 
the house you are always showered, shaved, 
and smelling good. 
If this is something you’ve always struggled 
with, then this is a huge opportunity. Master 
proper hygiene and watch how it completely 
transforms how other people see you.
  2. Being hesitant
So much of seduction is, for better or worse, 
about entitlement. If you see yourself as an 
outsider who doesn’t deserve her attention or 
attraction, she’ll see you the same way. 
Don’t be aggressive but be assertive. Whether or 
not you feel confident is irrelevant. Sometimes 
it’s okay to “fake it until you make it”. 
Most women aren’t going out and looking 
for a diamond in the rough to pull out of 
obscurity and into their bed. They’re looking 
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for socially dominant men who are at, or 
above, their level. You need to project this 
energy by any means necessary. 
As you cultivate this mindset it will become 
easier over time. Don’t be surprised if it bleeds 
into other areas of your life as well. There are 
plenty of men who start out with the goal of 
simply getting a girlfriend and end up with a 
promotion, the corner office, and the respect 
and love of those around them. Don’t hesitate 
to take this first step.
There are several body language cues that 
you can use to convey the kind of confidence 
that make women crave you. Check out my 
free guide on how to this right here.
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  3. Comparing yourself to others
Teddy Roosevelt once said, “comparison is 
the thief of joy.” It can also be the thief of 
love. Chances are the women you’re looking 
at dating are under no illusions that you’re 
the most attractive man that ever lived. What 
she finds attractive is that you know your 
limitations, accept them, and still manage to 
be confident and happy.
The alternative is to compare yourself to 
others, find yourself wanting and share this 
information for anyone who’s willing to listen.
Instead of focusing on where you lack, focus 
on the connection you’re building together. 
If you can do that, it won’t matter if you have 
a million dollars in the bank or a full head of 
hair, because you’ll have her.
  4. Putting her above yourself
It’s important to respect women if you want 
to get close to them, but it’s even more 
important to respect yourself. 
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A lack of respect for yourself is evident in 
the following behaviours: letting her choose 
where and when you go on a date, rearranging 
your schedule for her, and changing your 
opinions and beliefs to please her. 
It’s certainly a fine line you need to find 
between respect and subservience. I think 
it’s better to be assertive and self assured and 
risk coming across as a jerk than it is to bend 
too much and risk coming across as meek. 
Women will date jerks before they’ll date men 
who make them feel pity.
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So up to this point we’ve covered the principles 
you need to put into play early on if you want to 
maximize your chances with any woman. We’ve 
also covered the most common attraction-killing 
mistakes you’d need to avoid if you want to 
maintain attraction in the short term.
Now we dive into what I call long-term self 
projects. These are both elements of yourself 
that you need to focus on and accentuate. 
SEDUCTION SYNTHESIS: WHAT WOMEN REALLY WANT
“I was skeptical, but it just works”
“I’ve never trusted online advice in the past. It always 
felt like a one-size fits all approach that didn’t meet my 
needs. But Kate’s program truly worked for me. Within 
days of beginning to implement her techniques, I got a 
girlfriend who I now love. I was skeptical, but it turns out 
it just works.”  -Cherren B., India
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Essentially it’s not only about being your best 
self, it’s about presenting that self to a woman 
in a way that will maximize her attraction 
towards you.
  1. Excel in social situations
This is easier said than done but I’m going 
to give you a little life hack that will  make it 
easy for you to appear confident and suave 
in social situations around women. This is a 
great first or second date tactic. You’re going 
to set yourself up to succeed in a situation.
Surround yourself with friends in a situation 
where you feel comfortable. Put your focus on 
her so she can tell you care.
She sees this exciting and interesting guy who 
is choosing her first before all his friends and 
opportunities. This will make her heart go wild.
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  2. Harness her attraction
Men often take the lead when it comes to the 
sexual side of a relationship because they 
think being overly assertive is the way to win 
women’s hearts.
The truth is, if you push her beyond her 
comfort zone, you’re actually putting her in 
the driver’s seat. As soon as she says no to 
you, the power balance has shifted in a way 
that may be impossible to repair. Because 
now she’s acting as a gatekeeper which means 
you’re on the outside, looking in. 
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Stay out of this minefield. Instead, be the one 
in the relationship who is holding back. Don’t 
push her for sex too early in the game. 
Think of it this way: have you ever heard a 
woman complaining about a guy not wanting 
to get in her pants? Of course not. Most 
women say “men only want one thing”.
The truth is, even though they may not respect 
men who hound them for sex, women love to be 
desired. It’s an important part of their self image 
and how they see themselves in the world. By 
flipping the script on this typical dynamic, 
you’re taking the power position. It just takes 
a little restraint and suddenly you’re the one 
calling the shots, not her.
In practice this is a subtle distinction but an 
important one. It basically comes down to 
“always leave them wanting more.” Wait an 
extra date before making a move, always put 
her pleasure before your own, and don’t be 
desperate to get her clothes off. 
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  3. Stand out from the crowd
High quality women are overwhelmed by 
attention from eligible men who want to win 
their hearts. While this seems like a negative, 
you can actually use this information to win 
her heart.
In fact, the more men who are trying to 
pick her up with the same tired lines and 
cliched approaches, the more you have an 
opportunity to stand out from the crowd. All 
it takes is a little introspection and an honest 
self assessment.
What I mean is, you need to find what makes 
you special.
I don’t mean to sound like Dr. Seuss, but 
everyone has something that makes them 
special. Those who succeed in life and love 
are those who find what makes them special 
and harness it. 
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For me, it’s about my passion for helping 
people find love. For you it might be your 
drive to keep going despite adversity, or 
maybe it’s how good you look in a sweater.
Trust me that everyone has something that 
sets them apart from the crowd. For most it’s 
not as quantifiable as, say, being the fastest 
person in the world to run a mile. It’s more 
often something subtle and subjective like the 
way you treat animals or your ability to make 
people feel appreciated. 
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Once you find your special something, you 
need to know how to display it in a way that 
will make you seem valuable but not full of 
yourself. Don’t just talk her ear off about your 
passion.
This is what women mean when they say they 
like the “strong, silent type.” They don’t want 
to date a mute. What they really want is a man 
who is more focused on action than speech. In 
other words, show don’t tell.
Unsure what makes you special?
Take a good hard look at yourself. What attracts people to 
you. What are you best at? Ask your close friends and family. 
It may be embarrassing but you can find out so much more 
about yourself by how those around you see you. 
The process of finding out what makes you special can be 
difficult and even painful but it’s essential to achieving true 
confidence and winning the hearts and minds of women.
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  4. Vulnerability and value 
The truth is, vulnerability is sexy because 
it’s a measure of confidence. Think of it in 
terms of animals. The alpha male in wolves is 
not always the biggest or the strongest wolf, 
it’s the wolf that has the courage and killer 
instinct required to take down any challenger.
How does this relate? While human social 
dominance is no longer tied to winning fights, 
it is still based on hierarchy. And you want to 
be on top.
The way to the top of that pile can come from 
simply being the best, most attractive and 
most confident guy in the room, but for many 
men, this simply isn’t achievable. These men 
need to find a different path: vulnerability.
Think of it this way. Your value in society’s eyes 
is in your ability to climb the ladder. To do so, 
you have to be willing to take social risks to 
improve and thrive. Vulnerability is emblematic 
of the willingness to take risks and go for what 
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you want. After all, who is the braver man: the 
man who wears a full suit of armor or the one 
who goes into battle completely naked?
Vulnerability is the willingness to be open 
about yourself, your flaws, your fears and your 
downsides and be confident that, no matter 
how it all turns out, you’re still in control. 
There are plenty of ways to show off your 
vulnerability. Basically it comes down to 
taking social risks and not worrying about the 
outcome. Admit your faults. Get in touch with 
your emotions. Don’t back down from tough 
conversations. Be willing to disagree with her. 
Show off your feminine side. Be honest. The 
possibilities here are endless. 
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  5. Listening is so important
The biggest mistake I see so many guys make 
is focusing on themselves rather than on her 
needs. You can memorize a hundred perfect 
pickup lines, have a perfect body and a 
million dollars in your bank account but if she 
feels, even for a second, like you’re running 
game on her, she’s going to immediately lose 
interest.
This is what makes real listening the most 
important factor when it comes to getting 
women. 
Luckily, listening comes naturally if you’re 
willing to make the effort. It’s not just 
about hearing what she’s saying, you need 
to actively participate in her side of the 
conversation.
To do this, you need to summarize what she’s 
saying back to her. It may feel silly at first 
but it not only helps you understand and 
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remember what she’s saying, it also makes her 
feel heard. Women love to talk so if you make 
them feel like what they have to say is really 
reaching you, they’ll associate this positive 
feeling with you.
So focus on getting to know her rather than 
trying to get in her pants and pretty soon 
you’ll have both. 
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All the best and thanks for reading.
Yours truly,
Kate Spring
“I never thought dating could be like this”
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