The Shyness and Social Anxiety System - This is a step-by-step system anybody can use to overcome their nervousness, insecurities or quietness around people. The practical and concrete directions in this program tell you exactly what to do and when. This is what makes this program so much different in a sea of books that talk too much about what shyness or social anxiety are, but talk too little about HOW to actually overcome it.
Shy Around Girls?
3 Simple Steps To Overcome It
If you want to learn how
to stop being shy around
girls, then this article will
break it down for you in
3 simple steps that you
can start using today.
A lot of the information on
the internet about
overcoming shyness
around girls is just plain
wrong. Back when I was shy
around girls, I remember
reading things like “Don’t talk
too much. Listen and let her
talk” or “What’s the worst thing that can happen?”
That type of advice would be great for someone who was already a blabbermouth, but
how about the guy who is ACTUALLY SHY? What about the guy who can’t just go
talk to a woman because he feels too nervous? What about the guy who’s smart
enough to know that nothing really bad can happen, but he still feels that
overwhelming anxiety that stops him every time?
Eventually I realized most of the people typing this stuff up had never been shy around
girls themselves, and so they didn’t even know what actually useful advice might look
like.
This Article Is For The Really Shy
Most guys feel a little nervous around the girls they like, but they’re able to take a deep
breath, push through it, and become comfortable with them over time. That’s not who
this post is for. This post is for the guys who feel really anxious, scared and
inhibited around girls. If you get a strong physical feeling of anxiety when you think
of talking to a girl you like, or you feel a powerful, paralyzing hesitation when you want
to approach or ask out a girl, then this post is for you.
I’ve broken it down to three parts: Overcoming inferiority, not being too invested, and
becoming assertiveness. This post is going to go into more depth than anything else out
there. Bookmark this page now so you can come back to it again and again.
Now here’s step one…
1. Overcome Your Inferiority
From my experience teaching hundreds of shy people over the past couple of years,
both guys and girls, I’ve found the cause of most shyness is a feeling of inferiority. If
you feel you