Principles Of Spiritual Maturity

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Self Acceptance - Spiritually mature people have learned how to like themselves and value the
differences between themselves and others. They have an understanding that they were created in
a unique way. They don't wish for what they don't have, and are grateful for the things that they
do have. As a young man I often wondered why I had the parents I had. I often wished that they
were different and even sometimes wished that I had a different set of parents. I often wondered
why I was stuck with two sisters, and didn't have a brother. Sometimes I thought about how I
wished I was taller, had bigger bones, and was smarter. When I was about 30, I came to grips
with the fact that some things in life are unchangeable. When my own children start to complain
about me or their mother I usually say to them, "Sorry we're the only game in town; you can't
trade us in for another set."
Spiritually mature people accept who they are. They realize that they wouldn't be on this earth if
their parents didn't bring them into the world, and they accept their individual features that make
them who they are.
The Balance of Power
Spiritually mature people understand the balance of power. In other words they know who is in
charge and why certain people are in charge. I heard a great talk on leadership once at an
administrator's conference in Washington, DC. The speaker made a statement that really stuck
with me. His statement was, "In order to be a good leader you have to be a good follower first."
Spiritually mature people know how to follow orders and work in any system without moaning
and groaning, and don't making statements like, "Why do we have to do this?" or better yet,
"Why is he/she doing this?" They also don't talk about their bosses behind their back. It is
human nature to wonder why someone is doing something. Spiritually mature people know how
to go to their boss and discuss things face to face.
Why do spiritually mature people have this ability? I believe it's because they really know who
is in absolute charge, and that's God. They know that God has placed this person in charge of
them for a reason, and if they have a problem with their boss they might as well have a problem
with God, and they don't want to take that chance. They have learned how to separate the person
from the position. They respect their boss's position, but in their heart they know that they don't
always have to like who he/she is as a person. They know that God will honor their compliance,
loyalty, and respect for the person in charge and they believe that they will be blessed beyond
measure for being a good employee.
The Spiritually Mature People Can Forgive Others
Spiritually Mature people know how to forgive others. I battle this all the time. I know in my
heart that I have to forgive others. I know that it is not good to hold a grudge. I say to myself you
have to forgive, for your own good, you have to forgive. My problem comes in when I can't
forget. The longer I dwell on someone or something the angrier I become and ultimately I
become bitter. This bitterness affects me and those around me. I will admit that this feeling can
consume me at times. I might even look to get even with the person who I feel wronged me.
Sometimes when I sleep I am told that I make statement like, "wait until you see what I'm going
to do to these people." Forgiveness is a sign of spiritual maturity. Lack of forgiveness can
paralyze a person causing obsessive thoughts that impact a person's ability to function on a day
to day basis.
Spiritually mature people know that the object of their bitterness will be dealt with by God. They
know how to forgive and forget. Sometimes they not only forget but they work to restore the
relationship between themselves and others. They don't allow themselves to fall into the trap of
unforgiveness for a minute because they know that it is something that could impact them for a
lifetime.