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About James H Burns
Since 1977 Jim Burns has been working with students who have learning disabilities and behavioral problems. He has almost 40 years of experience working as an administrator, teacher, college instructor, and seminar leader. He is committed to helping administrators, parents, and teachers establish standards of excellence and help them build successful relationships with their staff, students, and children. He has written and designed The Bully Proof Classroom, a graduate course that is now offered at The College of New Jersey, and La Salle University in Pennsylvania in partnership with The Regional Training Center. This course has been endorsed by the NJEA. He has also written “Anti Bullying 101.” A book that provides teachers, administrators, support staff and parent’s 101 tips on how to achieve permanent help in dealing with unruly behavior and can be used as part of any anti-bullying program. In May of 2015 Jim was awarded the degree of Doctor of Humane Letters by Gratz College in recognition of his almost forty years of work in student behavior management and anti bullying. He is available for on sight in-services and keynotes.
Meet Parents At Their Intensity Level
This doesn't mean you should start an argument. It means that when a bullying parent has a
concern, as unrealistic as it might be; let them know that their concern is your concern. If they
come in and are agitated, meet their intensity with your own intensity. When they present a
problem to you respond with something like "I am so happy you made me aware of this. Now
let's work together to straighten things out," parents can be reactive, argumentative, and angry.
They may lack the social and emotional equity to deal with issues that are placed in front of them
by their own child. They rely on the responses that they have learned from others through
observation, and many of the behaviors that they exhibit are part of their own intergenerational
tendencies.
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